
This young man is the epitome of class.
There are moments in hockey that transcend the sport, and Monday's event at a Long Island cancer center was one of them. Matthew Schaefer, the 19-year-old Islanders defenseman who took the league by storm as last season's Calder Trophy winner, stepped up to a podium not to talk about goals or assists, but to honor the memory of the woman who shaped him into the person he is today.
Before he even got into the emotional weight of the occasion, though, Schaefer had a message for his dad Todd, who was sitting just a few feet away: hold those tears in. Todd tried. He really did.
The Schaefer family gathered at the R.J. Zuckerberg Cancer Center in Lake Success, New York, to officially unveil the Jennifer Schaefer Child Support Room, named in honor of Matthew's mother, who passed away from breast cancer in February 2024. Matthew was only 16 at the time. The room was made possible in part by a $150,000 donation from the Islanders Children's Foundation and is designed to give kids a place to simply be kids while their parents undergo cancer treatment.
Decked out in Islanders blue and orange, the space is loaded with team memorabilia, bubble hockey and air hockey tables, gaming consoles, and personal messages from Schaefer himself. Counseling services will also be available for children of cancer patients. It is, by every measure, a place that Jennifer Schaefer would have loved.
Todd Schaefer fought through tears as he addressed the room during the ceremony. He spoke about how nothing like this existed when his wife was battling the disease, and how the space captures exactly what she would have wanted. A bright room, full of life, where kids of all ages can escape the heaviness of a hospital setting, even if just for a little while.
Matthew echoed that sentiment, recalling how he, his brother Johnny, and their father had no real refuge during those long hospital visits. He talked about the vision the family always had of wanting to give back in a meaningful way, and how the partnership with Northwell Health brought it all together in a way they never could have imagined.
Islanders co-owner Jon Ledecky offered some telling praise, saying that Schaefer is an even better person than he is a hockey player, which he acknowledged is "saying an awful lot" about a reigning rookie of the year. Ledecky also noted that Schaefer has been a regular visitor to the cancer center well before the room's official opening, quietly making a difference without fanfare.
One of the more touching moments of the day came when Schaefer played a game of bubble hockey in the new room with 15-year-old L.J. London, whose mother Tenika Isaacs recently completed chemotherapy and radiation for breast cancer. Schaefer lost the game, for the record. He also presented L.J. with a ladybug bracelet, a symbol that carries deep personal meaning. Shortly after Jennifer's passing, a ladybug landed on Matthew's leg, and he has since used it as a reminder that she is always with him.
Isaacs, a teacher and cancer survivor, spoke about how the room represents far more than just a physical space. She described it as a symbol of emotional support and compassion, and a recognition that children need care and reassurance when a parent is going through treatment.
Former Islanders forward Matt Martin and his wife Sydney were also at the ceremony. Schaefer has been living with the Martin family during the season, and Matt spoke about how remarkable it has been to watch the young defenseman channel his personal grief into something that helps others. Martin called it a testament to Jennifer and the way the Schaefer family raised their boys.
Johnny Schaefer, nine years older than his brother, said the impact of the room is something he is deeply looking forward to. He talked about how no child should have to deal with a sick parent going through cancer, and how having a space that can ease some of that fear, all in their mother's name, is something he will be grateful for forever.
Matthew plans to visit the room regularly throughout the season, hoping to bring a smile to families who need it most. The room will feature rotating personal messages from him to the families using the space. As he put it, there will always be new people coming through the door who might be at their lowest point, and if the room can lift even one person out of a dark moment, it will have done its job.
"It's just crazy to think that my mom's name is on the room and it's going to be able to help kids and families," Schaefer said. "I know my mom would be smiling down right now."
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